Weddings Redefined

Stories and advice from Bernadette Smith, visionary owner of 14 Stories, the nation's first firm specializing in creating legal LGBT weddings. Our weddings are unique, personal, beautiful and still, historical. We have offices in Boston and New York.

Fred and Dean's Wedding at the ICA

Bernadette Coveney Smith - Monday, May 14, 2012

I was so excited to get the beautiful photos of Fred and Dean's wedding at Boston's ICA, taken by Avenna Studios.   I put them in our portfolio but wanted to share a few on the blog as well!  




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Two Guys in Love

Bernadette Coveney Smith - Friday, October 07, 2011

These photos come from one of our mini weddings, in which Mark and Jonathan traveled from Denver with about a dozen friends and family to legally marry in Boston.  It was a small wedding and not full of the typical details you see on many wedding blogs.  But here, beautifully captured by Kristin Korpos, are two guys in love on their wedding day.




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commented on 16-Oct-2011 02:32 AM
That is so beautiful and it is something should be legalized everywhere in the world. At the end of the day you cant help who you are in love with.I Hope these couple have a long and a happy marriage.
Alan Womack commented on 22-Oct-2011 09:10 PM
I wish the two of you the very best today and every day yet to come. Me and Mine are planning to get married soon and would like to know how to find a minister to do the service and where to apply for the license. We live in Florida and will have to travel
to a state wheere it is legal as Florida is still in the Stone Age where love and happiness is concerned and where the still shun what they don't understand. Any help/advice would be appreciated.

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Our Clients' Engagement Shoot on Delightfully Engaged

Bernadette Coveney Smith - Tuesday, July 05, 2011
Our clients Erica and Hayley got married on Memorial Day weekend and their engagement session and wedding photos were picked up by the Delightfully Engaged blog!  The photos were shot by one of my favorite photographers, Kat Hempel.

Check out the screen shot below and the full shoot over on the blog!






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Tony Sale commented on 02-Feb-2012 06:12 PM
Congrats on a great article and a great shoot.

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14 stories on NPR

Bernadette Coveney Smith - Tuesday, June 07, 2011
When I was a freshman in college at Boston University, I got an internship at WBUR, our local, Boston-area National Public Radio station.  It was so exciting being there, in the world of media and news and I loved every second behind the scenes.

The internship lasted a semester and I moved on and that was the end of that.

And then a few years post college, before this whole gay wedding planning business came about, I was really struggling with what to do with my life, just like many mid-twenty-somethings.  I was an avid listener of Car Talk and was once on the show with my own car-related question, "I'm good with my hands.  Should I be a mechanic when I grow up?"  I think we all know the answer to that one, but it was fun to be on the radio nonetheless.

Fast forward eight or nine years and here I am, a gay wedding planner, loving every minute of it, and NPR calls me to do an interview on music at gay weddings.  Of course!!  If there's anything I know something about, it's gay weddings and music is one of my favorite subjects.  And I love that so much of the music I hear at my clients' gay weddings is the same music that I was personally dancing to at clubs when I was newly out.  

So, without further ado, here's the interview for your listening - my thoughts on gay wedding music!

What kind of music is being played at your wedding?  Are you sticking with traditional wedding songs or going a more contemporary, pop route?



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Real Wedding - Bernadette and Lori

Bernadette Coveney Smith - Wednesday, February 09, 2011
Every year we work with about 40-50 couples who are looking to legally marry in Boston, for just a small ceremony.  Those who book the Destiny packages can expect photos like these beautiful ones of Bernadette and Lori.  These ladies traveled to Boston from Maryland for a wonderful wedding experience with some friends and family.  We arranged for their hotel, hair and makeup, limo and more.  

Here are some highlights from their ceremony in the Public Garden.  Aren't those outfits incredible?  I love Lori's custom suit (inspired by Ellen's own wedding suit).  Bernadette's dress is absolutely stunning!  They are such a beautiful couple!






Boston gay wedding photos by Cheryl Levine.


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gay weddings commented on 12-Feb-2011 01:32 PM
OMG, Bernadette's gown looks amazing and I love the shoes!!! The picture of both of their shoes together is even more funny. Lori's lucky to have a lady like Bernadette that will let her have a sense of humor and wear tennis shoes to her wedding lol.
Lori commented on 24-Feb-2011 07:22 AM
Bernadette was absolutely beautiful and I couldn't take my eyes off of her. I didn't notice anything that was going on around us until Cheryl sent us the wedding pictures. 14 Stories did an amazing job arranging our destination wedding from the hotel which was incredible, to our hair and make-up with Lisette (incredible artisan), to our wedding pictures in the park (Cheryl has an amazing eye behind the lens and had a way of making us feel at ease). Thanks to all involved. It was a day I will remember all my life!
Anonymous commented on 24-Feb-2011 08:22 AM
My husband and I had the pleasure of hosting Bernadette and Lori's wedding reception at our home in Maryland after there return from Boston. The wedding was beautiful as are Bernadette and Lori. We wish them years of happiness!

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Dinner Party Style Gay Weddings

Bernadette Coveney Smith - Thursday, February 03, 2011
A lot of the same-sex weddings we plan are dinner party style - that is, little to no dancing, with a real focus on the food, beverage, conversation and elegant ambiance.  These weddings are so intimate, and while there's always an extraordinary, formal meal, the atmosphere remains so casual and upbeat because the group is small, mostly knows each other and there's no pressure at all.  Everyone can just be themselves and have a good time.  Doesn't that sound great?

With these weddings, the ceremony is typically short and sweet, with  most guests standing around.  The ceremony is important, the most important part, but a formal ceremony doesn't always lend itself to the atmosphere these couples are trying to create.

We created a beautiful wedding just like this on the Cape last September.  The photos will be published in a magazine so we can't give too much away but here's a little teaser...


Photo by Jag Studios


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Lesbian Weddings commented on 09-Feb-2011 02:36 AM
This wedding was so heartfelt and personal, and it honestly reflects who the couple is and what they love. Beautiful.

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Thompson Island Wedding - Before and After

Bernadette Coveney Smith - Tuesday, February 01, 2011
Here's another series of amazing before and after wedding transformation shots, this time from our wedding on Thompson Island.  Our primary decor elements were LED votive candles (in pillars on the dock, hanging from trees, and hanging from the pavilion), an abundance of flowers, including tons of petals, and of course, those amazing linens and place settings you see in the photos.  Pretty amazing transformation...



Professional photos by Katje Hempel.  Flowers by Spruce Floral. Lighting by Boston Uplights. Rentals by Be Our Guest.


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zUp Lighting For Weddings commented on 09-Feb-2011 02:41 AM
Great post showing the before and after wedding transformation shots.Beautiful in every way. Congratulations!!

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Walden Pond Wedding

Bernadette Coveney Smith - Friday, October 22, 2010
Shannon and Mandy came all the way from the Bay area to marry at Walden Pond after booking our Destiny Platinum package.  Two teachers, they chose Walden Pond specifically because of their love of Thoreau and other transcendentalist writers of his time. 

Kristin Korpos was the photographer.  Janet married them.  It was a perfect day for these two brides.  






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Larry Green commented on 09-Nov-2010 09:39 PM
Love it! When I was trying to grow up as a teenager, I doted upon Thoreau and Whitman, and before chancing upon this post, has never seen any photos of the famed area.
jenn commented on 20-Nov-2010 08:56 PM
Wow what a beautiful back drop so alive with color.
Jenn
http://www.momentsofelegance.com
Lesbian Weddings commented on 07-Feb-2011 10:02 AM
Wow this is beyond amazing, you can tell they are so in love!Love the natural daylight and the landscape shots.

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Chatham Gay Wedding

Bernadette Coveney Smith - Friday, October 01, 2010
Beautiful photos from last Saturday's mini wedding on Lighthouse Beach in Chatham, Massachusetts.  These brides came here from Michigan for a small wedding with 10 guests.  They booked our Destiny Silver package, which was customized for them.  Photos by Doreen Birdsell.





Congrats to the newlyweds Jessica and Nida!



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Sneak Peek - A Wedding at Chimney Corners Camp

Bernadette Coveney Smith - Monday, September 13, 2010
Meg and Sarah's three day wedding extravaganza at Chimney Corners Camp was last weekend and we're exhausted but exhilarated!  It was a fabulous weekend with perfect weather and I can't wait to show you the good photos.  In the meantime, here's a sneak peek from my cameraphone and the Jessica's Country Flowers' blog.  Jessica was responsible for that gorgeous floral design!






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wedding photographer sudbury commented on 20-Sep-2010 12:58 PM
Are those favors in the picture? The glass containers, as they look quite funky!
Bernadette commented on 20-Sep-2010 03:20 PM
Yes, those are favors that double as escort cards. The top of each canning jar had a sticker with each guest's name and table name. They came out beautifully!

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